October 1, 2008

be continued (4,..)

Divorce factors: 4….


4. Extramarital Affair
Many men, under these circumstances, tentatively bring up the problem with their wife, and frequently the wife dismayed by her husband’s behavior. A disruptive affects on the marriage. One off big mistakes that can lead to divorce is doing affair. It cannot forgivable for your couple. So, you can avoid doing affair. You must know if someone have affair. I’m sure that he lies with his wife. He always tells he doesn’t have an affair. He lie that he has a affair, he lies that he just making love with another women, he lies that he overtime but he take around with other woman, and etc. Then, your couple will angry with you that you lie. Furthermore you do an affair. So, be careful with this case. It treats your marital status.

5. Women Come Completely Unprepared for Motherhood.
The woman is often faced with the dilemma of children versus career. If she fails to fulfill self emotionally and sexually through motherhood, her creativity may suffer, and then she may become depressed.

6. Lack of Communication
Communication is very important here. Because when you are lack of communication your couple doesn’t know what you want and what she want to do. She or he fells so dilemma. So, create good communication to maintain your relationship with your couple.

7. Blame other
Don’t blame other people if you want to maintain your marriage. Most people blame his wife when they face a problem. You must know that you are time work. You must share together, and think together to find out a best solution toward their problem.

8. Trauma
Some time someone have trauma with the past experiences. Trauma for everything you can avoid it. For example: your parent tragically death is caused by cancer. So, you feel so afraid with this case. You don’t want your wife infect cancer. But how if she getting cancer? When you feel so trauma you will runaway with this case. You can read Lightning by Danielle Steel.

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