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Divorce factors: 4….


4. Extramarital Affair
Many men, under these circumstances, tentatively bring up the problem with their wife, and frequently the wife dismayed by her husband’s behavior. A disruptive affects on the marriage. One off big mistakes that can lead to divorce is doing affair. It cannot forgivable for your couple. So, you can avoid doing affair. You must know if someone have affair. I’m sure that he lies with his wife. He always tells he doesn’t have an affair. He lie that he has a affair, he lies that he just making love with another women, he lies that he overtime but he take around with other woman, and etc. Then, your couple will angry with you that you lie. Furthermore you do an affair. So, be careful with this case. It treats your marital status.

5. Women Come Completely Unprepared for Motherhood.
The woman is often faced with the dilemma of children versus career. If she fails to fulfill self emotionally and sexually through motherhood, her creativity may suffer, and then she may become depressed.

6. Lack of Communication
Communication is very important here. Because when you are lack of communication your couple doesn’t know what you want and what she want to do. She or he fells so dilemma. So, create good communication to maintain your relationship with your couple.

7. Blame other
Don’t blame other people if you want to maintain your marriage. Most people blame his wife when they face a problem. You must know that you are time work. You must share together, and think together to find out a best solution toward their problem.

8. Trauma
Some time someone have trauma with the past experiences. Trauma for everything you can avoid it. For example: your parent tragically death is caused by cancer. So, you feel so afraid with this case. You don’t want your wife infect cancer. But how if she getting cancer? When you feel so trauma you will runaway with this case. You can read Lightning by Danielle Steel.

Divorce Factors

I expect the study will be useful for the reader to keep their marital status, and to maintain their marriage harmoniously. All conflicts or problems have many factors th
at can lead to divorce. You must know how to handle each problem wisely to maintain your relationship with your couple.
The writer writes several factors which may lead to divorce:

1. Selfishness
No discussion of self-sufficiency and independence in a marriage is difficult to sustain a marital relationship if attitudes of responsibility are lacking during troublesome periods.
The conflict can appear when someone forces his idea to make a deal something. If someone has strong selfishness with his idea means that he can create bad relationship. The good ones idea to solve a problem is making discussion with his couple. You can think wisely about household problems. Don’t be selfish. It can lead their marriage unhappy.

2. The Affection and Sex Relationship Difficulties
It is regrettable many of the marital relationships in our culture are base on other than purely affectionate longings for each other. Lack of mutual affection, adultery, unsatisfying sex relation, and venereal disease.

3. Different Opinion
The hostilities which inevitably arise due to different opinion. Incapable person can do excessive destruction to the marriage, to the marital partner or to oneself.